Dogs at Weddings: The Do’s, The Don’ts & The Honestly-They-Stole-the-Show Moments
You’ve got the venue. You’ve got the dress. You’ve got the love of your life. But let’s be real—your wedding guest list isn’t complete without the actual love of your life... your dog.
Whether they’re walking down the aisle in a tiny tux or simply showing up as their unbothered, emotionally supportive selves, dogs at weddings are the new non-negotiable. But before you give your pup a ring bearer promotion, there are a few things to consider (besides whether they’ll try to eat the cake).
Let’s talk about the do’s, don’ts, and “oh no he peed on the altar” moments that come with including your dog in your big day.
DO: Make Sure Your Dog Actually Wants to Be There
We get it—you love your dog and want them to be part of everything. But if your pup gets overwhelmed by crowds, loud noises, or any form of ceremony, it’s okay to let them sit this one out.
Think about:
- Their comfort level with strangers
- Noise sensitivity (bands, DJs, screaming relatives)
- Ability to handle the spotlight without spiraling
If your dog is more introvert than extrovert, consider a pre-wedding photoshoot or letting them crash the after-party in a cute outfit.
DON’T: Assume the Venue Is Dog-Friendly
Not all venues are down with dogs, no matter how photogenic yours is.
- Ask ahead about pet policies
- Double-check rules for indoor vs. outdoor spaces
- Confirm if there's a designated potty area (yes, we’re going there)
DO: Assign a Dog Handler (aka the Real MVP)
You’re busy getting married. You need someone whose sole job is to handle dog logistics: walks, potty breaks, snacks, water, and pulling them away from the shrimp tray.
Whether it’s a pro sitter or your most responsible friend, don’t DIY this. You’ll thank yourself later.
DON’T: Skip the Pre-Wedding Trial Run
Practice makes perfect—especially when your dog is expected to carry rings or walk down an aisle lined with strangers and flower petals.
- Do a dry run at the venue (or somewhere similar)
- Practice commands in full wedding chaos mode
- Use high-reward treats. This is not the time for basic kibble.
DO: Dress the Part (But Keep It Comfy)
A bow tie? Yes. A full-body suit made of sequins? No.
Keep your dog’s outfit cute but comfortable. Think:
- Breathable fabrics
- Secure (but not tight) harnesses or collars
- No obstructive accessories that’ll stress them out
Pro tip: Always bring a backup outfit—or go classic with a sleek collar and leash combo that won’t steal the show too much.
DON’T: Forget the Essentials
Weddings are all-day events. Your dog’s not trying to go 10 hours without water, a bathroom break, or a chill-out zone.
Pack a mini wedding-day dog bag:
- Water + collapsible bowl
- Snacks + calming treats
- Poop bags (you know why)
- A toy or blanket that smells like home
Trust us—future you will be so glad this bag exists.
DO: Let Your Dog Shine in the Right Role
Not every dog needs to carry the rings (and let’s be honest, most of them shouldn’t). Pick a role that matches your pup’s personality:
- Flower Dog
- Ring Bearer (but maybe skip the real rings)
- Guest of Honor in your wedding portraits
- Reception Greeter (aka vibe manager)
Your dog doesn’t have to do the most to be a meaningful part of your day. Sometimes just their presence is enough to make it unforgettable.
Dogs at weddings? Iconic. But only if you do it right. With a little prep, a solid plan, and the right expectations, your pup can be the star of the show—or at least the one guest who doesn’t object during the vows.
Because let’s face it—your dog was there before the proposal, during the chaos, and will be there long after the cake is gone. They deserve a spot in your love story.
